Piles of articles, blogs, treasures of movies, epic stories and what not! Many things out there to intimate the meaning of true love and marriage! In reality, there is no defined strategy for a happy marriage life or “happy life”:)
Believe me “everything depends on our perception”. How we take the problems and how we react to certain situations! If you think you are not a happy bird, you will keep counting on your problems everyday!
There is no rule or rocket science anywhere in the world that by being sad (for long term?) or by crying or by remembering your griefs, you will be able to find solutions of all your problems. Then why we always run after finding solutions which are not practical, not implacable at all!
A very recent Bollywood movie “Queen” represents this message beautifully. All ladies must watch this movie. Being an emotional fool is just a way to make yourself feel downcast and inferior, leading to lower the level of your confidence!
Its good to love others and you should but prior to that, its must to love yourself (Aimez-vous)!
Grant yourself to enjoy the life to the fullest with your own ethics or rules. Do what you really want to do. Be good, do good and the joyous world is waiting for you…
Say “No” when and wherever required. Make tough calls when required. Don’t be so harsh & hard to yourself girl! Running behind everything will give you nothing, just take the problems lightly. You are not born to please everyone. Everything happens to others also so don’t think you are the only giant victim of some huge SADNESS in the world!!:p
Just remember that loving yourself is adding to happiness of ourselves and hence others, boosting up our own confidence. It doesn’t mean that we are being selfish. Remember, making others happy and helping others is the easiest way to make our own-self happy.
So come…lets spread joy…